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Hello Zimbabwe

Family time back east went by way too fast.  The days were full and sleep was welcome “early” every evening.

Our flight from Atlanta to Harare, Zimbabwe (through Johannesburg) on Delta was uneventful.  It was super cool and a bit shocking to see flight attendants quite older than me.  One in particular was so sweet and had fun flirting with Bill telling him how handsome he was.   Most were cheerful and well versed in their jobs – absolute veterans.  Fortunately, only one must have been an old United attendant from the past.  I’m sure some of you know what I’m talking about.

We left Atlanta at 9:50 pm and arrived in Harare at 9:50 pm.  We virtually lost a day.

Zimbabwe (don’t you love the way that flows off your tongue – so exotic) is home to almost 17 million people living in an area the size of Montana.

There are 16 official languages and everyone speaks English.  They use the US dollar not trusting their local currency.  Wikipedia says their official unemployment rate as of 2022 was 80%.  One of our drivers said it’s more like 96%, stating that government expropriation of white farmer’s land was the cause.  Government expropriation makes people and companies fearful of making new investments. He was saddened that South Africa might be heading down the same road.

Most of the cars are Toyotas – ordered online and shipped directly from Japan.  A 30 day turnaround.  Not built to USA standards but more affordable than buying locally. New vehicles start at $9,000.

Many people asked us about Trump and brought up losing aid from America.  They were all glad and hoped it would make a difference for their country.  Hoping that the government would learn to make its own way.  I was surprised by the response.

Phew – didn’t mean to detour like that.

We had no plans for Harare other than a place to stay. We’d wing it.  I picked a gorgeous lodge 11 kilometers (7 +/- miles) and a half hour drive from the airport.

Wow! Even in the dark our lodge was an extraordinary oasis.  Beautifully decorated in a lush tropical jungle hidden behind tall concrete walls topped with electrified wires.  Robbers? Wild animals?

Mosquito nets draped the bed and the free wine called out my name.  I read the hotel guide book and decided a trip to an animal sanctuary the following day would be fun. Sleep came around midnight.

Apparently, visiting an animal sanctuary was the “thing to do” – there was no availability. The pros and cons of unplanned travel.  Obviously, leisure time at the lodge was in order and it was perfect.

The daylight version of the drive to the airport revealed tall walls topped by wires protected at almost all properties.   Concrete homes and businesses lined the streets and corn and beautiful, tall orange flowers grew in open fields.  People walked to and fro on the soft grassy shoulders and makeshift shops selling food and home goods lined the roads

A quick flight from Harare took us to Victoria Falls.  We stayed at the Victoria Falls Safari Lodge on the Zimbabwean side.

The main gathering area at the hotel was open air and overlooked an endless sea of green trees – luckily it’s the end of the rainy season and fall is just around the corner.  A nearby watering hole attracted a variety of animals from elephants to warthogs.

The restaurant rid their food waste by feeding frantic vultures at 13:00 every day.  (Feeding video link)  We marveled how Pavlov’s theory worked in the wild.  So accustomed to the feeding time, vultures started flying in to nearby tree an hour early.  It was like LAX.  Some would start to land and have to circle to find space on a branch.  

We were assured that the wire fence surrounding the property would keep the wild animals away.  Somehow the warthogs found away around it and were grazing by the front lobby.

Being the end of the rainy season, the falls were mighty and thunderous, nearly two miles wide.  Absolute power beyond anything we’ve ever witnessed. The spray literally rains on portions of the pathway – the sound almost deafening.

At the end of the falls is a one lane bridge to Zambia built in 1909.  Big 18 wheelers lined the roadside filled with coal that they’ll sell in Zambia.  In Zambia they get copper from the mines and sell in Zimbabwe.

People also walk back and forth from each county to sell goods.  Immigration is quick and easy.  I walked with a gal from Zambia heading to the Zimbabwean side to sell okra, soap and other trinkets at three times her cost.  She made an arrangement to set up in a restaurant.  Her mother passed away at 16 and she learned quickly how to fend for herself and siblings. Now she feeds her family.

We flew back to Harare and stayed in the city for a night.  Like most third world cities there was a mixture of beautiful old buildings and hideous concrete structures.  Traffic was crazy. The sidewalks uneven and broken, mini shops like a kid’s lemonade stand lined the sidewalks, bars protected businesses, people dressed for business walked with purpose but many men just seemed to be idly “hanging out” (the cost of unemployment). The Harare Garden Park offered a reprieve from the sun.

Zimbabweans were as sweet and kind as anyone could imagine.  They spoke in whispers.  Strangers even paused to say hello.

Zimbabwe – its sound so sweet….

Sekondi-Takoradi, Ghana

Sekondi-Takoradi, Ghana. The capital of the Western Region.  Referred to as twin cities. 

Tall commercial buildings pierce the horizon while dilapidated colonial buildings dot the countryside.  

Gridlock traffic wreaked havoc to any sort of flow.  It took about 45 minutes to move out of the hustle and bustle as we maneuvered our way to a coastal fishing village.  The blurry photos are from the bus window – click photos to enlarge.  

The chiefs and village elders spoke to a crowd of cruisers while Bill and I chose to roam and visit with the locals.

Living conditions were rudimentary at best.  I needed to use the bathroom and was invited to a back corner walled area that was about 3’ x 3’ with a wet mosaic tile floor.  The floor barely slanted towards the edge of the wooden structure.  That’s it.  No running water, no drain, no trash – only two small buckets.  Imagine my confusion. Bucket? Floor? Bucket? Floor?

A fellow female cruiser approached me later and asked floor or bucket? I asked her without answering and she said she was told floor….  Ain’t life grand?

A few spoke English so we were able to converse.  We talked politics a bit.  Their election is coming up in a couple days and their “biggest” issue is compulsory schooling for children.  Some want it and others think it’s a waste.  We talked with two who had differing opinions.

The village children were delightful.  I taught them to fist bump with an explosion.  The first child warily and bravely humored me and then one child after another lined up to give it a whirl.  After a few minutes they were so animated that they acted like they were falling backwards with each explosion. Their smiles and laughter were contagious. 

A couple moms and big sisters asked to have their photos taken and I received a marriage proposal from a giddy young man.  HA!

In this particular village the fish are salted and smoked. 

The rural commercial fishing area was lined with long wooden boats, some with piles of knotted up used nets stacked high.  Left over piles lay on the sand waiting to entangle and cling to the shoes of daydreamers. 

People were hard at work weaving and stacking nets, cleaning fish, selling/buying goods and washing clothing.  A fishing expedition can last from one to seven days.  From here it’s not hard to imagine that the most common occupation in Ghana is fishing. 

My light skin and white hair had some stop me to say how beautiful I was.  Which, at my age and full of wrinkles felt like at any moment a camera crew would jump out to say “You’re on Candid Camera”. 

During such an event one woman, with her wares on top of her head, took both her hands and stroked my hair over and over – smiling from ear to ear.  It was so awkward but I reminded myself about curiosity and humanity.  We who can step out of our comfort zones get to actually embrace one another.

It dawned on me that only one boat had a shade canopy with a single man weaving under it. His partner sat four feet away in the sun, with a towel on his head, dripping sweat. In my best sign language I complemented the smart guy and tried to ask the other man why he was in the sun.  Encouraged by the complement, the shade man motioned for me to walk around the boat to his side to watch him weave. 

A school grounds visit was spectacular.  I can’t even express the sheer joy that I experienced.  There were hundreds of kids from all ages.

A group of mostly elementary kids gathered and I whipped out my phone with my FatBooth app open and ready.  I took a photo of a child and then asked them to wait one moment while my phone munched away and came back with a photo of her with a “fat face”.  They roared – laughing and falling all over one another – each egging the next on to see what they’d look like.

One of the girls asked me to play music so I put on Katy Perry’s “Firework” song and the dance party began.

Before we sadly had to depart I asked them to all jump for a photograph.  Craziness ensued. What a blast.  I could have stayed there all day.

My heart was full.  It was a good day!

Just Maui’d – 25 Years Before and After

Today we celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary.  Well actually we are still celebrating…..

Thank you Gail for sending us this picture from 1996.

We went back to the same beach today with a tripod in hand and snapped this:

Same beach – same time 25 years later

Much to My Surprise

I looked back to see when we last blogged. It was November 2019!

Holy $h!+ Batman has a lot changed since then.

Bill and I had just returned from  South America – altitude sickness, messed up travel plans because of Yellow Fever and being caught up in the riotous ousting of the Bolivian president for election fraud made up for a conundrum of a trip.  (Click on photos to enlarge).

No sooner did we return to our little slice of heaven in Charleston and our twin granddaughters were born. They were a month early – their mother extremely grateful for that. Talk about living tiny – they were busting at the seams!

Bill and I in a moment of joyous bliss (when we heard the impending news) lost our minds and committed to babysitting 3 days a week for a year while the girls’ parents figured out balancing life, work and two babies.

Ponder our situation. Staying put was going to be our challenge – not watching babies!

Two months into our routine Covid happened.  Kids kept their jobs and so did we.

Routines didn’t change except for the added use of Lysol wipes, hand sanitizer and wearing face masks. 

At first we relished in the eery quietness of our daily strolls around downtown Charleston.  The community came together –  storefronts signs and chalked sidewalks were messaged with words of unity. As time passed and the chalk marks faded, for lease signs flourished as Charleston shuttered business after business.

In September our home in Indian Wells, California sold. We masked up and headed West to empty the house and sell the treasure we had collected over the years.

My heart was heavy as each person carried away a momento from our moving sale. We passed on stories that perhaps they too could pass on.

Tiny living in Nevada and South Carolina meant there was no room to keep things. 

By about the fourth day of dealing with the massive lockdowns in California vs having come from a state that had opened most things up we were suddenly over our sadness of selling. We shortened our trip and got the hell out of Dodge. 

Adiós Gavin. 

We feel for you California. ❤️

It was bittersweet.  The end of one chapter and the beginning of another…

We drove a few personal items back to Nevada (enough to necessitate renting a Store-all). Visited with family and friends and headed back to job numero uno.

Babies cooed, rolled over, crawled and walked. Before we knew it our time was up.  What a difference a year makes.

Christmas 2019

Christmas 2020.

Bill wanted to leave the country and old scaredy-pants here asked for a compromise. So we flew to Nevada to shoot ducks and geese and to catch up with family and friends.

 

After a month we have flown to Hawaii. 

Feels like a different country but there’s American healthcare.

First stop – Maui to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary where we said “I will”.

(Prepping for our marriage vows  Bill asked me to ask him specific questions where he could answer “I do”.  

The hippy who married us apparently didn’t get the memo and asked us questions where the only appropriate response was “I will”!)

I will laugh at your jokes. I will let you do the dishes. I will love you for a life time and I will travel the world with you!

We pray that all is well in your life. PLEASE tell us about you in the remarks!

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A pro deep frying turkeys today for a community dinner. Delicious.

North Charleston, South Carolina

November 24, 2016

#deepfried #turkey #quick #juicy #delicious #prosatwork #helpingservethanksgivingdinner #generouscommunity #loveoneanother #thankful #grateful #happythankgiving #photofrommyday2016 #photooftheday #iphoneography 

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Raindrops keep falling on my head.

#documentlife #documentdublin #landscapes #picolgy #streetlight #streetphotography #streetart #sonya7rii #colors #cityscape #city #photofrommyday2016 #photooftheday #photography 

Dublin, Ireland

October 16, 2016

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Dusk in Belfast sings to me. 

#belfast #northernireland #dusk #sings #struggle #strength #love #peace #photofrommyday2016 #photooftheday 

October 12, 2016

Burning Man 2016 Captured on Camera

This year was our 7th burn. Never the same. Magical – enriching with a whole lot of love going on.

Click on any photo to see full framed and in a slideshow format.

Enjoy!

If you see a photo of yourself and want a full sized copy – shoot me an email at paige@paigeshaw.com and I’ll be happy to share.

If you ever become disenchanted with the world go to Burning Man – it will restore your faith in goodness and love.

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Spent the day in my art room ramping it up for Burning Man 2016.  This year’s theme is Da Vinci’s Workshop – I must have been channeling him in some minuscule way…

My primary project was to reinvent a top that I crafted for 2012’s burn (bra, feathers and a broach) by adding fringe, gold glitter dots and chain. The skirt was 2012 project using leather, scraps of material, fringe and jewelry bling.

Before…Burning Man 2012

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Because twirling is just so much fun… 

 #twirling #joy #love #nofilter #photofrommyday2016 #photooftheday 
Minden, Nevada

August 11, 2016

Camino de Santiago Portugues Day 11

Bill made it to 70 today! He said we were either going to have a celebration of life or a parrrtay! He is the first male in his family in generations to live this long. Something that can’t be topped since he is the last male Shaw.

Bill, feeling more alive than ever stepped out in front of all us. We struggled to keep up!

It was supposed to rain today but the skies parted and stayed clear as we walked through acres upon acres of vineyards and rose bushes galore! 27,279 steps and 11.55 miles later we rolled into Ponte de Lima – the oldest in Portugal.

Bill got to choose where we sleep tonight and it’s the Municipal Albergue. He wanted Chappy to have a real taste of Camino living. Chappy couldn’t be happier – he gets to sleep with 9 women at the same time.Tomorrow 1 inch of rain is predicted – 100% – all day! On a good day the path is muddy and the steepest climb of the whole Camino….  Here’s hoping for the best.

Corn dryer


From yesterday’s Corpus Christi Day



Washing laudry at the river

Poop patrol

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A gathering place. Tonight – Bill’s birthday eve dinner in the kitchen of our Casa on the Camino. 

#billsgoingtobe70in4hours #surroundedbylove #breakingbread #caminobuddies 

Balugâes, Portugal

May 26, 2016

Camino de Santiago Portugues Day 10

It’s the first day that we started with blue skies! We relished in the day knowing that tomorrow and the following 2 days will bring rain. Saturday it is predicted to rain up to 2 inches!

Today we walked a quick 8.9 miles with about 20 other pilgrims. It’s like an accordion – you bunch up and expand – bunch up and expand.

We took our last “vacation” day yesterday to visit the town of Braga – rich in history and known to have the first cathedral in Portugal. Originally, we were supposed to celebrate Bill’s birthday on this vacation day but like the weather (literally and figuratively) plans  change….

We are now luxuriating at the magnificent Quinta da Cancela in Balugâes – built in 1736.  We have it all to ourselves – the owner is having dinner ordered in and we will begin to celebrate Bill’s impending 70th birthday – 4 hours and counting.

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The market in Barcelos

Coke Zero in a glass bottle

Long Horned Cows

Roxanne stole my phito and took a photo

You decide.

Wild Calla Lillies

 

The entry to Quinta da Cancela

The surrounding of our casa

 

Playing a round of golf

 

Bill’s birthday eve dinner

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  Leap Day! I offered to erase the hard drive on Bill’s old Baja laptop. Later – he hands me 2 keyboard keys – the only 2 that popped off from his Rambo style wipe. This is love ❤️. 
February 29, 2016

A Space for Artfulness

In recent years the desire to have a dedicated “art” area has been intensifying.
It started with the notion of buying a large storage shed and plopping it on our parcel – only to find out it would not fit within the mandatory setbacks.
Next was a consultation with a contractor to have a little room built off the laundry room. “This roof line doesn’t meet that – the floor elevation doesn’t meet this.  We have to change the roofline, dig out a new subfloor”.  Dollars were mounting. The heck with that.
Penny pincher Paige gave up on the whole thing.
Last month we decided the clean out the garage – the walls seemed to be closing in.  It was time to give the kids all the childhood clutter we’ve been storing for years (why make them wait until we kick the bucket). We sorted through all the novelties we haven’t looked at in 10 years. Give away this, throw out that, save enough for the kids to reminisce about later on. Divide and conquer.
And then the lightbulb went off.
My new art room.
*click on photos to enlarge

* Our handy dandy handyman took down one of our shelves in a creative way – lowering the middle shelf to create a tabletop and then cutting off the remaining top selves.  He installed particle board over the tabletop to allow room for a cantilevered sitting area while notching out  room for my legs on the shelf below.  Pegboard now hides the torn sheetrock.
New paint gave the table and adjoining shelves a crisp clean look – Minwax Polycrylic Gloss  protects the work surfaces from chipping and scratching.  Walmart curtains hide the storage shelves and create a more finished effect. I painted the floor a checkerboard pattern to pull all the colors in and chose teal green to paint an old barstool and storage boxes to add a little pop.
Violà – or Walah for us Americans…..

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Day 166Alone time – an intimate moment between mom and baby. You can feel the love.

Kolkata, India

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Day 82In memory…  The lighting of a candle evokes memories, peace and love.

Photo taken in Kathmandu, Nepal.